Sometimes, love and time and patience are really the answer. Yesterday, I regained a long-lost friend. A long time ago there was a fight, there were differing expectations and agreements…he said some harsh things, I tried using bullet points and logic and nonviolent communication to no effect, and then I, too, ultimately said some harsh things when I was hurt enough.
I had apologized for my part in the things that led to the original argument and he wouldn’t accept that apology. I had left the door open for healing, I had said that I hoped we could be friends again sometime, and after that, he would not speak to me.
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